• Erica Suckow

Unique Valentine's Gift for Men that Have Everything

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Are you currently stressing over buying a gift for a man who already has everything? Man, do I feel you! I used to pour over Pinterest and Amazon looking for the perfect gift for my man who tends to buy himself anything he wants the second he decides he wants it. That makes gift buying hard!

One of the best things I've started doing is noticing things that my man needs or mentions he would like throughout the year then adding it to a list in my phone.

Yes, this is a little extra but it has helped SO MUCH! When his parents ask me what he'd like for his birthday, I have a list of ideas right there. Then I'm not caught thinking "Man, I had the best idea, but I can't remember what it was!"

I do this for all of my family members, actually. And I've been told over and over that my gifts are thoughtful and asked "how did you know I wanted that?"

If you're struggling with a man who seems to have everything or is just down right tricky to shop for, I've compiled a list that will help you narrow down gift options for Valentine's day that he'll love!

ONE: Flowers

Who doesn't love getting flowers? Flowers aren't just for women, I like to send my man flowers once in a while, too! He loves receiving something to show that I care and that I've been thinking about him. Then we both get to enjoy them in our home. I love personally love ordering from 1-800-Florals. It's super simple to order them and get them shipped to wherever you need to get them. Click here to get amazing deals on flowers for your man for Valentine's Day!

TWO: Cigars, Humidor, Cigar Cutter, Lighter

My man loves to have a casual cigar on the deck with a glass of whiskey on nice evenings or to celebrate special events. And when his friends come over they think he is super bougie because he has his own humidor filled with a variety of cigars. Humidors are where you store cigars and they keep them at the perfect humidity level. It's like having a wine fridge or a wine cellar to have your wine ready to drink at all times, except for cigars.

Humidors vary so much, but you can get ones that digitally display the humidity levels and have individual slots to hold cigars. That would be the best starter one for somebody just getting into cigar smoking.

My husband mentions how much he likes his butane lighter each time he enjoys a cigar. You can get these as well as cigar cutters personalized on Etsy. My personal favorite is ThirstyRhino Designs. I have gotten my husband lighters, cutters, and even travel humidors from this creator!

If you're like me and have absolutely no idea where to start your research about cigars, you have a few options to find the perfect one for your guy. You can visit a cigar lounge or cigar shop near you and ask whoever is working for some recommendations. You can also visit cigars.com and get plenty of different options to help you pick out a few different bundles.

THREE: Couples Massage

I'm getting excited just thinking about this gift! It's the best of both worlds-- your guy is happy, you're happy, and you get to spend quality time together. I personally love couples massages because you both have the chance to unplug and relax. I always leave feeling like a completely different person.

If this is something you're thinking about scheduling, I would definitely do it sooner rather than later. These tend to book quickly.

If you wanted to really get creative, you could create a gift basket with massage oils, masks, salts, etc. for a spa day at home. Men like getting pampered sometimes, too. Plus, it's a good excuse to get some hands-on time, if you know what I mean!

FOUR: Gaming headset & NanoLeaf lights

Got a gamer on your hands? A new headset is the perfect gift. I mean, who doesn't want to hear their man yelling at other poor souls from the other room? I'm only joking. But your guy will really appreciate the thought you put towards his hobby.

The headset I recommend most for PlayStation is the Stealth 600 Gen 2 Headset from Turtle Beach. This headset is super lightweight so it's not cumbersome on your head after wearing it for awhile. It's wireless and can also be used with Nintendo consoles.

For Xbox, I recommend The Elite Pro 2 Headset from Turtle Beach. The mic is removable so you can use when it best suits your needs! Plus, they look super cool and sleek.

And to set the mood, some NanoLeaf lights would be perfect. These lights stick to the wall and are programmable to change colors and have different moods you can set. You can also arrange them in different patterns. These would be the best addition to his gaming room, plus, they look really cool.

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FIVE: New Book

You can never go wrong with a new book. If your guy isn't one to typically get lost in fiction or sci-fi novels, personal growth books are always great choices, too. Some I would recommend include:

Extreme Ownership: How Navy Seals Lead and Win by Jocko Willink. This book is written by ex-seals describing the leadership principals that can be taken from their experiences and transformed into use in the business world.

The Science of Getting Started: How to Beat Procrastination, Summon Productivity... by Patrick King. The title speaks for itself, right? It will help the most and least motivated guys feel ready to dive into life head first after reading.